Tuesday 30 May, 2017

Blue boxers vs pink bras - My man has a wife but wants me to move in

I always took a special liking to him as a man and husband but now i'm beginning to wonder what it would be like if he was mine.

I know it sounds bad but it is hard to find good men as any woman will tell you, and when I heard they were having domestic problems, I couldn’t let the opportunity pass.

We eventually started dating and things got serious.

Even though he was honest about his relationship status initially, things happened and I found myself praying his marriage would end.

My problem now is I might be getting what I asked for and I don't know how to deal with it. His wife is migrating and he has now asked that I move in with him when she leaves.

They are still very much together, and I fear he will treat me the way he treated her when and if I move in with him.

Should I take up his invitation or keep things the way they are?

-JJ

Blue Boxers: I am not sure how serious the relationship can be if you are knowingly dating him while he is married. Your concerns are warranted and it is very likely that this man expects that you will accept another woman. There are many questions that need to be answered before you agree to move in with him. Will his wife be coming back to visit? Are you prepared to move out each time she comes?  Think about the implications of this move. We don't want to tell you what to do, but we think you should stay put.

Pink Bras: Move go where?! Girl, keep yourself quiet! First of all, remember where you stand in this 'relationship'. What are you getting out of this arrangement? Move in with him when he and his wife are over. You said it,they are still very much together. Also, remember, how you get them is usually how you lose them. Good luck!

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